First of all, I think it’s worth noting that whatever emotional response you might have to this is valid. I’m not trying to push anyone right into “this doesn’t matter; let’s just get to work” mode. Similarly, I like the twist on the classic Joe Hill quote “don’t mourn; organize.” It’s possible to do both. It can be necessary to do both.

In that spirit, just wanted to share a few links/thoughts that have been helpful for me; maybe they can be helpful to you too.

1. Space to Support Each Other: First of all, a timely thing: since I know a lot of UMN students, I’m sharing a link to this space for dialogue, processing, and community-oriented self-care today, for anyone who might need it.

2. This interview with Mariame Kaba (@prisonculture on Twitter):
“[We] have to think and imagine bigger and understand that these things take a long time and we’re not going to end things in this moment, we’re not going to rebuild the entire world in seconds, and that we’re part of a long struggle.” – Mariame Kaba

3. Real talk from Jay Smooth:
“I don’t know if we will survive; I don’t know that we’ll be okay. But what I know, is that we will resist.”

4. A Note on the MN Activist Project:
I put together this database of local activist organizations a few years back; it feels like it’s time for a major update. If you have notes for me, get in touch. Either way, I’m going to work on adding to this and making it as useful as it can be. A focus on local struggles is going to be an important tactic for the next four years.

I’m also adding this link, to a big bank of resources regarding legal matters, health stuff, etc. that could be affected in the next few years.

Again– I wouldn’t dream of telling people how to process, or how to grieve, but it is worth noting that change comes from organized movements; now is a great time to get involved. Whether that involvement is showing up and working, supporting that work through donations, signal-boosting and leveraging networks, or something else, it’s key.

5. My Thoughts:
I don’t think it’s helpful to just tell people to “relax.” Or, really, to tell people to do people anything. Let’s listen. Let’s be there for each other. Especially today. Check in on your people. If it is helpful for you to vision/brainstorm about activist plans, do that. If it is helpful to use this as an opportunity to more fully commit to a particular cause or movement, do that. If it is helpful to just hang out with friends or read a book alone, do that.

This matters. It’s bad. But I’m reminding myself that everything that we (and I’m thinking about the “we” who cares about equity and justice and empathy) told ourselves we’d have to do under a Clinton presidency is still the work that has to get done under a Trump one. It might be tougher now, and there might be other things that come up that will demand our attention, but again– I believe in this movement. I believe in us.

Thanks again to Button for the signal boost– but especially for posting this poem, right now, in this climate/context. A few notes:

1. You can find the full text here, and this poem is also included in my new book, available online through Button or in person.

2. This is one of those poems that is about a specific topic, but has more going on underneath too. On one level, it’s about men’s responsibility to talk to other men about gender violence and sexual assault preemptively and proactively. This is not to say that men are always the perpetrators, or that men can’t be victims, or that sexual assault only occurs along the gender binary– none of that is true. It is just to say that statistically, it’s important that men bring these conversations into spaces to which we have disproportionate access.

But on another level, this is a poem that attempts to think critically about the concept of allyship, or a framework that only allows for heroes and villains. It’s about how much anti-oppression work of any kind is about relationships and the community/culture we build through both our actions and inaction. I hope that we can read/hear this poem in that context as well– especially with everything going on in the world right now– the election (my thoughts on that here), #NoDAPL, the continuing struggles against mass incarceration and police violence, and a whole host of other issues. What does it mean to challenge ourselves to do more than just “be” on the right side of an issue?

*EDIT: a handful of post-election resources relevant to this conversation*

3. I got to perform this poem at the United Nations last year, which I think is testament less to the poem or to me, and more to the work that so many have been doing– on campuses, in communities, on social media, and everywhere else, to fundamentally move the conversation around sexual assault forward. In MN alone, I have to shout out SVC, the Aurora CenterMNCASA, and everyone doing that work.

Please feel free to share. A couple other resources:
  • I put together a list of poems on consent and rape culture as part of an even larger list here.
  • Another relevant poem of mine up at Button: “Consent at 10,000 Feet.” 
  • You can find my booking info (for performances, workshops, conferences, etc.) here.

Just voted. Three quick thoughts:

1. If you live in a state with early voting (like MN), do that. Aside from just the convenience of picking which day is easier for you, it makes the line shorter for other people on election day. Here’s a link to MPLS sites, just as an example; if you’re somewhere else, google it.

2. Knowing the general audience who reads my work, I think it’s worth sharing: yes, voting matters. No, it can’t take the place of organizing. No, it won’t magically stop the Dakota Access Pipeline, police violence, poverty, or climate change. Yes, candidates are imperfect. Yes, we need to think beyond election day. All of that is true, and voting still matters. It’s a power bottleneck that allows us to help decide whether that post-election day organizing will be offensive or defensive in nature. That’s the key for me, more than any other argument. And especially in down-ballot races and referenda, it can have a real impact on people’s lives.

So yeah. Please vote (if you’re able). Then, of course, we get back to work on 11/9 no matter what the outcome is.

3. I’m not really interested in telling people for whom to vote (aside from the obvious one: not Trump), but I did share my own thought process regarding Dems vs. Greens (and the larger issues that are part of that debate), in case anyone is interested.

Clearly, I’ve been talking about this, and everyone has been talking about this, so there’s probably nothing revelatory in here. I just think it’s worth pushing back against the assumption that voting doesn’t matter, or that election time has to be a time when everyone tunes out of movement-building work to focus solely on voting. If anything, I see people more plugged-in, and paying more attention, right now. The key is harnessing that energy. 2017 can be a spectacular, transformative year when it comes to movement-building and people-powered activism. But that work is on us, not our politicians.

Finally, a word from Tish Jones: